Become A BETTER LOVEr

People often ask what it takes to become a better LOVEr. In many cases, this question is based on a premise that there are specific techniques and abilities that can be learned and that mastering these techniques will guarantee success as a lover. Becoming a better lover is only about providing greatest sex.

The key to becoming a better LOVEr lies in developing the ability to pay attention. This may sound simple, but it is complex and challenging. The state of sexual excitement is an intense one. It is easy to be so absorbed by your own experience and sensation or so consumed by your own desire for gratification that you lose awareness of your partner’s state. By remaining attentive to your partner and more focused on his or her pleasure than on your own, you will become a more skillful lover than anyone who has learned a variety of techniques by rote.

Learning to pay attention requires developing what is, for many, an entirely new attitude toward sexuality. There are three key elements. First, you must view sexual activity as an adventure, as something to be explored consciously. People generally expect that sex will happen “naturally” and believe that there’s no need to think much about it. While there is some truth to this notion, sex that happens unconsciously is usually not very good or satisfying. Second, you must develop the ability to communicate openly and honestly about sex, to ask your partner how he/she feels and you have to express and explain what feels good to you. Finally, if you can learn to be focused on your partner and to observe the way he or she responds, when you both reach new heights of ecstasy. Without attentiveness, technical skills are likely to fail you, but in the hands and body of an attentive lover, practices can be the tools of a master.

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Sex Music.. Soothes your mood..

Sex music is the type of music you'll listen to during sex...


These are some list of songs you could listen to:

ignition - r. kelly
if im wit u - r. kelly
smooth operator - sade
sweetest taboo - sade
kiss of your life - sade
all mine - portishead
it could be sweet - portishead
strangers - portishead
vodoo - d'angelo

For Men: Get a girl #1

The eyes are the window to the soul..
They will always betray what a person is thinking,
if you're not paying attention to them..
Sometimes what you hear is not always what they (girls) think..

The Greatest Sex

The greatest sex occurs when two people are
1. turned on by giving the other person pleasure
2. not afraid to express their own pleasure.

How Will I Date HER?

If you want to date her...

Dont ever ASK her for a date..

Offer her a date!

don't SAY: Can we have a date? Can we go out?

You can rephrase the sentence:

Lets go out.. or
It would be better if we could go out have a dinner or something,, (?)

No question mark!